Have you ever wondered about a girl being judged, mocked, defined by someone’s point of view in a world of modern era and open thoughts.
Isn’t it strange to know some xyz commenting on girls like they have known each other since lifetime.
How disheartening it is for a girl to go through such sufferings and mental breakdowns.
Not everybody matches up with everyone, not everybody has the same mindset. It’s human to be different from one another.
Irrespective of the reasons, how a girl is chose to define her worth by a stranger ready to bully or point on you.
Somebody said, life goes on and we move but has they told a girl that their past won’t really haunt.
People are going through a lot but there are so many of xyz and a trapped ones who are still stuck, *mentally due to the hardships, bullying, face-offs and what not!
How they put on a mask of happy smile just because a girl is not made to show her weaknesses or fear and than there are some xyz defining you to the third people.
But she is a girl, yes you’re right, she is also a coward to stop and silence herself and feel sorry to betray her own feelings, to accept people as they are. Maybe because she sees good in every people and doesn’t believe in hatred.
I thought about that xyz defining worth of girls, who are they? From where do they exist? How do they even know her?
They are humans. They choose who they are and who they wish to be. Ofcourse they know their good and bad and maybe that’s what makes them happy the most. To pass a judgement on a girl.
Maybe their backgrounds allow them and their character insist as they tap on the judgements to go viral.
Are they feeling happy and relieved now? What do you think?
Coming to the girl,
Maybe she is strong enough to let go of what’s being thrown at her but. . But . .
Is everyone as strong as she is? What If there are more girls into such difficulties and suffering from same circumstances like her, facing the hard reality and keeping things to herself.
But look at her smiling behind the bars.
Ok enough now!
Let’s just wonder about that xyz’s family and the ladies around them. Do they wish the same to happen with them? Or what if those pretty ladies already went through such circumstances? Are they silent and strong too? Do they want their sons or brother to be a reason of what they went through?
Social media is all about an open book.
You allow people to control you.
They like, share, comment according to their moods and wishes.
Don’t you think it would be pretty much better if you choose the right path and take the right steps specially for all the ladies around you irrespective of the hatred or indifferences you carry in your heart?
Maybe xyz think they’re doing right at that moment of temporary bliss and perceptions.
But has they once as a human really thought about that girl who actually went through such devastating notifications?
Irrespective of the age bar,
It can be your sister, sister’s friend, your friends, sister-in-law, mother, mother-in-law.
For once, think according to them and go ask them if you’re doing the right thing maybe your own will tell you better.
Or just ask them, if they anyday, anywhere in the past went through such sufferings of negative approach, bullies, etc.
If you can’t really make things right than don’t make it worse for someone else. You never know what battles someone is fighting in real life and what they actually go through.
Social media looks amazing from outside. As you cross the boundaries, there is someone suffering and that can be ANYONE around You.
P.S : Be kind and gentle.
It’s a really small life and a huge world to know anyone from inside.